Elizabeth B. (Ryan) Grainger, 83 years old
New Berlin, NY
Passed away on Friday, April 19, 2013 at the
Folts Homes, Herkimer, NY.
Betty was born on December 11, 1929 in Fairport, NY the daughter of Irving D. & Mary A. Bramer. Her childhood was spent helping in her father’s corner drug store in Fairport and perusing antique shops with her mother. She married Donald A. Grainger in 1960.
She was a 1952 graduate of The University of Rochester School of Nursing. After graduation, Betty worked as the head nurse of the Obstetrics Unit at Strong Memorial Hospital in Rochester. She later accepted a teaching position at the University of Michigan Ann Arbor Campus. She returned to the Rochester are to marry and raise her “three boys” while employed by a private pediatrics practice. In 1972 she and the family moved to Sherburne, NY to be closer to the family’s summer home on Chenango Lake and she soon accepted a school nurse teacher position with the Sherburne-Earlville Central School District. In 1976 she was hired as an evening shift nursing supervisor at Chenango Memorial Hospital in Norwich and later retired as their Director of Long Term Home Health Care. After retirement she continued to lend her nursing skills to the Norwich community as a volunteer with Hospice and the local Area Agency on Aging. She also enjoyed trips to Russia, France, Finland and several other European countries with her friends and coworkers and was a member of St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church of New Berlin. She was always there to lend a helping hand or sympathetic ear to those in need.
Betty is survived by her children; Scott (Debra) Grainger of New Berlin, NY with whom she lived for the last five years, Mark (Tina) Grainger of Lebanon, OH and Christopher Grainger of Oriskany Falls, NY. She is also survived by her grandchildren; Megan (Joseph) Ackerman, Evan Grainger and Janette Grainger, all of New Berlin and Lindsay Grainger of Lebanon, OH.
She was predeceased by her parents as well as siblings; Dr. James (Sue) Bramer, Lewis (Alice) Bramer, and Nina (Stuart) Walling.
Calling hours will be held on Monday, April 22, 2013 from 6:00-9:00 PM at the Dakin Funeral Home LP, New Berlin, NY.
The funeral service will be held Tuesday, April 23, 2013 at 9:00 AM at St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church, New Berlin, NY with the Very Reverend Charles Taylor officiating.
The burial will be in the Bramer family plot in the Oakwood Cemetery, Pennfield, NY.
The family would like to express sincere thanks to the staff of the Folts Homes for the gentle compassionate care they provided during her last three weeks.
Memorial donations may be made to the Hospice & Palliative Care of Chenango Co. 21 Hayes St. Norwich, NY. |
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I remember getting the phone call that you were gone like it was yesterday. It's been a long a year and your boys miss you.
I believe in my heart that all nurses have a very special place in heaven, and you are there looking down watching over your family
because after all that is what nurses and mothers do. Rest in peace dear Betty.
Dear Scott, Mark, and Chris and families, Please accept my sympathy for the loss of your wonderful mom. She was always a good friend and an excellent nurse. We had a good time together when in the "old" high school in Sherburne. Later, she also helped me out in Chenango Memorial when I was in the emergency room on one occasion. I know that you were so important to her and you provided her with much happiness.
Linda Sperry
Norwich, NY
I love you Aunt Jackie!!. See you this summer
Mark
Dear Scott, Mark and Chris, We are saddened to hear of your dear mother's passing. I have been thinking of all the great times we had with your mom when your family lived in Fairport. Oh how I missed those phone chats when you moved. Your mom had the ability to tell a story that could make you laugh, cry or be deeply moved. After spending time with Mark I can see he has inherited that talent too. Your mother touched so many people's lives during her nursing career. I remember as a school nurse she met some abused children, and with her big heart she wanted to bring them all home. Her biggest joy in life was being a mother to her three wonderful sons, you were her pride and joy. The grandchildren really completed her wishes. Although your mother has gone to heaven her spirit will always be felt by those who loved her. You are always in our thoughts and prayers. Yours affectionately, Aunt Jackie
Jackie Grainger
Rochester, NY
I was saddened to hear about "Betty" passing. I have such fond memories of her and my mother Pauline Thornington.
They were such great friends and helped each other in all their projects. Betty then became a good friend of mine helping me thru nursing
school and being there for my graduation (like a close aunt) I always knew her to help anyone she could, in any way she could.
She lived a good and prosporous life. I know of many people she helped along the way and she left a freat legacy behind her and
people will always remember the way she helped them and I know I will always pay it forward and always think of Betty while I am doing so.
Tammy Thornington Von-Bank
Earlville, NY
Betty was so proud of her family. I am saddened to learn of her passing.
How fortunate I was to work with her, get to know her and have her as my friend. God bless you all.
Kandy
Norwich, NY
To my brothers, Knowing the two of you were with mom over the last couple of weeks confirms that her legacy of light and compassion is alive in each of you. Please know the burden of my grief is eased somewhat, knowing you took such great care of her. Scott, Every aspect of the last 5 days was perfect, and as it should be. Thank you for the leadership role you took for this work, alomg with the love and compassion for mom's care over the years. May mom bask in Heaven's Easter light forever. Job well done on earth by her. Job well done by the two of you for her
Mark, We are so sorry for your loss. We are here for you anytime.
Kurt & Vicki Lawrence
Lebanon, OH
Sorry we could not be with you at this time. We are with you in spirit.
We know how hard this is and we are here anytime you need us. Please call when you feel up to it.
Karen, Terry & Family
Safety Harbor, FL
I am so sorry hear to hear that Betty has passed. My thoughts and prayers are with your and your family.
Nancy Snell
Norwich, NY
So sorry Christopher for you and your family. Time will heal all wounds. Hold on to the memories and cherish them.
Liz Henry
Munnsville, NY
Mark, Tina & Lindsay - You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Willie Duvelius
Mainville, OH
Chris, I'm so sorry for your loss. My condolences go out to you and your family
during this difficult time. My prayers and thoughts are with you friend.
Take comfort in your memories and knowing that she's in a better place now.
Ashley McCabe
Munnsville, NY
I am so sorry to hear this. I worked with Betty at Long Term care for years what a wonderful person she was
I was just asking my friend melissa a few weeks ago if she has heard or seen Betty. Betty you will surely be missed by many.
You were a wonderful,sweet lady. You were so good to me when we worked together.
May you RIP and fly with the angels. You were a very special person.
Patti Haddad
Bainbridge, NY
Scott, Debbie and family. So sorry for your loss. She was a wonderful lady and will be missed by man.
Matthew, Melissa and Family
New Berlin, NY
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